I need more drugs!!!!!

Maggie is fine.  Hunter is leaving soon for hunting or whatever the hell it is he really does.  I am going to Vegas a day or two before he gets home.  He finally said he would pay for my flight but no spending money.  I said I would be fine.  He was shocked that I didn't respond the way he wanted to.  He likes to argue.  Then he asked if I had called my investment (IRA) people to have them send me money.  I said no.  I didn't need any.  I told him my son and daughter-in-law would feed me.  You know....I could get into all his bullshit but I won't bore you.  I think you pretty well know the drill with him.  I even got my starter husband to agree to drive me to the airport and also pick me up.  How cool is that?  I know Hunter is frustrated that he can't get me all pissed off.  Funny thing is...this morning I wasn't feeling good because of all the stress the last week or so.  And he asks if I am OK.  And it really does feel like he cares but eventually it all comes up in a negative way when he is yelling at me.  We went to the apple orchard and while I was literally falling asleep, we got a bunch of stuff and had a good time.  He even seemed concerned cuz I kept falling asleep in the truck.  I NEVER do that.  So that tells you how I have been feeling.  Now he's threatening to take away the   discover card.  It is what I use for gas and cigs.  I get no  money.  None.  He's an ass but I won't leave.  I just need to learn to ignore him.  I have alot of medical needs and could never afford it on my own.  The one thing I won't do is touch my retirement.  He can try all he wants to get me to do so.  Not gonna happen.  Never.  It is the only thing I can count on.   If worse comes to worse-I know, how much worse could it get-I will quit taking any pills and die if that's the way it will be.  But hey, he can't take away my insurance as long as we are married. 
I will be fine.  I just need to go deaf and ignore him.  If anyone leaves.....it's gonna be him.
Looking forward to spending a month away from him!!!!!!!!

The party is the day after Halloween!

I just found out Hunter leaves Nov. 1st!    Christmas is coming early here in Pleasantville. 
I will be wrapping myself in GLEE!
 May even put up my Christmas tree.
 So what if the only one here to enjoy it is me?
I will find beauty in all that I see,
Cuz no one will be here to steal my joy.  Opps.  I was on a roll there for a minute.

Now Maggie has a big bump on the top of her head.  Since I am the gentle one in the house and I don't recall any cinder block falling on her head......well, I shutter to think.  You really think it just mysteriously appeared?  On the plus side.....she is fine.  Nothing different about her behavior.

We have a gift certificate for the apple orchard and I need to see if Hunter wants to go in the next day or two.  He is gone most of November and I think they close Dec. 1st.  I love their apple cider donuts!!!!!!!  We buy a bunch and leave out a few, freezing the rest.  Then I heat them just a touch in the microwave.  To die for!

I hate that Halloween will be cold.  I always like to sit out and hand out the candy.  I light candles and I get to see all the kids.  They don't have to climb the few steps up to the door.  And I hand out treats to the dogs.  But I don't think I will be doing that this year.

Hey!  All you guys in the way of the storm......please be safe.  Peace.