Nothing in Common.

Really.  We have nothing in common.
 I didn't clean the pan well enough.  Why do I have an ashtray soaking in the sink when we have a laundry sink downstairs.
  I stay in and try not to smoke and try to watch a movie with him but it just never works.  He criticizes everything, or at least it feels that way to me.

I compliment him.  He compliments other women. 
I ask if he is OK.  He says, "What's wrong with you now?"

We are going to a wedding this weekend.  I have heard him tell others that we (he?) might just parlay that into our trip to upper New England.   I think I heard him say that it would be 3-4 days there and 3-4 days back so that he will be back to go up to Brian's farm to hunt.  You know Hunter no longer hunts, right?  No.  He'll buy a license and let someone else fill the tag. He hangs out in bars. He will butcher the animals.  He makes Brian dinner every night and does chores all day for him, including electrical. I could complain about the lack of lighting here but I have finally given up.

Opps.  Got off track there.  This trip.  Do any of you know about it?  Could you fill me in?  We-and I use the term lightly-have not discussed it.  I know it sounds awesome to some of you but it is not what you think,  especially now that we have a dog again.  You do not understand the love affair Hunter has with his dogs.  Let's illustrate here.  The train is coming........He snatches up the dog just in the nick of time and I, of course, am dead, having been slammed into by the train.  Our trips generally involve visiting friends of his that also vacation late winter/early spring.  This one would seem to be a trip for us as I do not think he know anyone along the way.  But I dont' understand the concept of just going and not staying or enjoying anything.  Is it just so that he can tell everyone that he is taking his wife there because she's always wanted to go?  He has always said he would never go to the east coast because he doesn't want to.  It holds no interest for him.  After that, I would only mention it once in a great while.  One year he went hunting in Maryland.  He flew.  He wouldn't fly with me, and he wouldn't go there.  Can anyone see why I felt he had cheated on me?

Any women out there who would leave if they were financially able to?  Yeah, I see all those hands going up.  We should all band together and Hooker our way to financial freedom.