COFFYPOT - Believe it or not, I do have one gun and damned if it isn't a Smith & Wesson 38 Special!
JOE - You can call me a wench or even a wrench. I have been called so much worse. Remember who I am married to. Hey. A wrench isn't so bad,...you put your hand on it and kind of move it up and down,...oooo, did I say that out loud? Sorry.
TO ALL THE REST OF YOU WHO COMMENTED - I can't thank you enough. I think I just need people to see what I'm talking about. It's like, it is so wrong that it must either be a nightmare or a Stephen King after school special. My therapist has helped me immensely. I am becoming strong. I love Chuck because someone needs to. I ignore the fact that I am not a priority on his list. I'm just glad I finally made the list, you know? He has low self esteem and feels out of control even more so now that his health is getting worse. I could go into this but I won't. I really know him. I know he needs me. I know he doesn't know how to love because he was never taught this. Perhaps one day, before he dies, he will "get it". He'll see how easily I love and he'll go, "OMG! I never realized it was so easy."
In the mean time, as I was getting together all the stuff to wash and wax the vehicles after he mentioned it again, he turns around and says it would take me too long so I should just run them through the car wash. Like my profile says,...he runs hot and cold and back and forth. I just do my best not to get sucked into it. By the way,....if you met him, you would really like him. He listens and does and gives and only someone who gets it would see through him. He lacks confidence and so he does this false bravado thing. Blah - GET OFF THIS SUBJECT MIDDLECHILD!!!!!!!