Wednesday, January 5, 2011

I Have a Hater!

It's kind of weird having someone comment on one's post when they don't even know you. I can only feel sorry for that person. It's probably an attempt to feel better by making others feel bad. There is a problem with that. We are a strong lot and there's that whole "sticks and stones" thing.

Things are better here. I'm almost thinking I have become moody. Ya think? I don't believe that but I am willing to entertain the idea. I have talked to The Hunter. He becomes defensive and swings the subject around to something totally unrelated. (But generally hurtful). I know his anger/frustration is not about me but sometimes I take so much in,...I overflow.

Once I asked God what to do. He told me, "Just love him." Such clear and simple advice. I do know that's what The Hunter needs.
(No, I didn't hear audible voices and I don't have visions or stigmata,...but the answer was real and perfect. )

Just Love Him

16 comments:

klahanie said...

Greetings friend,
I like your healthy approach to such an unfortunate situation.
Indeed it is best to just show caring and not let it get to you. Sometimes, the frustration in a person's life, can be misdirected and thus, directed at an innocent person.
In peace and much respect, your way, Gary :-)

The Queen said...

IMATHIRDWIFETOO... and I'm so use to haters I feel left out if I don't get at least one hater a week... wait until you get a stalker.. stalkers are the worst

Oh.. the Royals and crew..handled your hater for you.. she hit CB next... he.. she.. it.. we are not sure which.. but.. damn it sure gets a lot of comments..

I swear.. someone hacked our accounts..teee hhheeee he eeeeee

CB said...

I blame you for our hateful bitch of a stalker!!! What the fuck is wrong with people???

The Queen said...

DEDICATED TO THE HATER FROM THE ROYALS

The poet was here
we think it's queer
that we can't tell
if it has a tail
it may have balls
it makes stupid calls
it curled up and cried
when it got Guccified!

Jen Sparkles said...

Wonderfully said The Queen! It should jump off a bridge and die...lol Or come out from under the bridge and get run over...lol

Susan said...

Thank you so much for stopping by my blog! Thank you for commenting that my sadness will pass. I do know that it will and it takes kind people like you to remind me of that. Sometimes people have the impression that therapist don't get sad, that we are always on top of the world. But we are people and it is easier to be more objective about other peoples sadness than your own.
But thank you so much for stopping by.
Also you were given the best advise about Hunter, just love him and if you pray, pray for him.
Susan

Jimmy said...

Been there done that on another blog I had, the thing about haters is there is nothing you can say that will make them agree with you because they are only looking for drama, if you change your opinion for them they will laugh in your face, if you disagree with them then you are disrespecting them, best thing in my opinion is to ignore them.

Personally if I have a problem with a blog or website, I choose another, where I am comfortable, this is why I think drama is all the haters are looking for.

Coffeypot said...

I'll keep quiet!!

Gucci Mama said...

Hate mail is how you know you've arrived. ;-)

In the Pink said...

You know you are moving up in the world when people start to hate on you! Consider it a sign that you are famous or something like that. But seriously mean people suck! And another phrase is "Don't hate, appreciate"

KittyCat said...

I have been here myself. Someone who doesnt really know you , throwing all kinds of hurtful things around.

ITs the biggest reason I changed my first blog to the anonymous one i have now.
So sorry you had to go thru it.

Aunt Juicebox said...

Hmmm, well, you know how I handle haters. LOL Although, I am having a hard time handling Pat, I can't stand her, but I'm loathe to be truly mean to her...I have to live next door to her.

Linda Medrano said...

Ignore that stuff. Write what you write and let those of us who are trying to know you better do that!

Daffy said...

See...you must be doing something right...I don't have a hater. I'm THAT boring! LOL

And sometimes what seems the simplest of answers are really the most difficult! ...just love him... takes great strength!

Kamila said...

I think haters are like bully.. they are just scared of something..

and awwww.. Just love him... hmmm... I love that..

jewelrygirl said...

Who in the world would hate you? Idiots abound, that is for sure. I have been amazed by you for over a year...lol.

Hope all is well!

Jenny